A Woman's Guide to a Powerful and Persuasive Voice
Overview
Every woman needs a voice of her own. This is the book that will help
every reader put more authority behind her words.
As women, we all want to be heard and respected for our contributions.
However, a weak or grating voice can sabotage even the most articulate
and brilliant ideas. To get her point across, every woman needs a
pleasant, yet strong voice that will get others to really hear what she
has to say.
The Voice of Success is written just for women and
covers every characteristic of the female voice, with all of its assets
and liabilities. Vocal coach Joni Wilson has helped women across the
country communicate more effectively and become more successful in their
careers by showing them how to use their voices to get what they want.
Here she shows readers how to be taken more seriously by conquering
their top voice complaints. Every woman will discover:
seven keys to set her voice free • the eight deadly emotions and how
they affect the voice • 10 ways to keep her voice young and healthy •
how to create an engaging telephone voice • how to tune up her voice
image to attract clients • how to create the right voice for the office
and public speaking
Complete with invaluable exercises readers can do easily and quickly,
The Voice of Success will give every woman a voice she loves and
that others will love to listen to.
About the Author
Joni Wilson (San Diego, CA) has been a top voice and performance coach
for over 16 years. She is President of SalesTalkBiz? International, a
training company that teaches voice communication skills to corporate
professionals.
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In a competitive world, we all want to be heard and stand out for our
contributions. As women, we want others to perceive us as the
intelligent and strong, capable and professional people that we are. But
even the most brilliant and skillfully articulated ideas can be
sabotaged by a weak, annoying, or grating voice. To get your point
across it's essential to have a pleasant, yet strong voice that will get
others to take notice of what you have to say.
Written just for women, The Voice of Success covers every facet
of the female voice, with expert advice on how to maximize its assets
and overcome any liabilities (including sounding too young or too old).
Vocal coach Joni Wilson has helped women across the country communicate
more effectively and advance in their careers by showing them how to use
their voices to get what they want. Here, she shows you how to command
attention by conquering women's top voice complaints. With
easy-to-follow tips, you'll discover:
how to double your vocal power • the eight deadly emotions and how they
affect your voice • ten ways to keep your voice young and healthy • how
to defeat the jitters • how to tune up your voice image to attract
clients • how to create the right voice for the office and for public
speaking • how your hormones affect your voice and what to do about it •
how to sing your way to a better speaking voice • how to create an
engaging telephone voice • and more.
Complete with valuable exercises you can do quickly and easily, The
Voice of Success will give you a voice you love that will get you
the recognition you deserve.
Joni Wilson has been a top voice and performance coach for over
18 years. She is President of SalesTalkBiz? International, a training
company that teaches voice communication skills to corporate
professionals. Ms. Wilson lives in San Diego.
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Excerpt
1
''Can We Talk?''
An Overview
I was presenting a workshop on Voice Survival at the National Speakers
Association Conference in Hollywood, California,
when one of the female presenters approached me in the hallway. ''Joni,
can you help me?'' she asked in a raspy voice,
''My speech is in two hours and I don't know what to do . . . I have to
speak in front of eight hundred professional speakers and my voice is
completely gone.'' She stared at me hopefully, waiting for my answer.
Stop right there and hold that thought while I backtrack eight years to
the time when I had just finished writing my first book on voice. Having
spent the weekend in an inspiring motivational seminar with Mark Victor
Hanson and Jack Canfield, the authors of all those Chicken Soup for the
Soul books, I was flying high with enthusiasm and untapped potential. I
was ready to establish myself as the voice expert—not just another voice
teacher.
In the years that followed that powerful weekend, I attended many
workshops and conferences, sometimes as the presenter/speaker and
sometimes as an attendee. At many of the events, following my
presentation on voice techniques, women—speakers and business
professionals—often approached me looking for answers to what seemed to
be their never-ending voice problems.
As my reputation as a voice expert grew, I received telephone calls and
e-mails at all hours of the day and night from women searching for
answers to those success-robbing voice dilemmas that seemed to pop up at
the worst possible times. The problems, which ranged from chronic vocal
fatigue to total voice loss, often occurred for no apparent reason. But,
of course, there is always a reason.
Over the years, I've worked with female teachers, lawyers, politicians,
speakers, singers, business executives, media professionals, and even
stay-at-home moms. They were all experiencing voice problems caused by
straining their voices as they tried to be heard above life's boisterous
noise and chatter. I understood their frustration because I too had lost
my voice at a pivotal time in my life, and that catastrophe almost ended
my singing and acting career just as it was about to take off. I was
twenty years old, singing in Las Vegas with the world by the tail, when
my voice problems began. I had just been booked as an opening act for
Elvis (the real one!), and people were actually coming to see me. I had
wonderful opportunities flying at me from all directions and a secret
fear—that I could not trust my voice to be there when I needed it—which
kept me from acting on any of them. Like most women with voice problems,
I just kept pushing my poor, abused voice by tightening, forcing, and
strangling it into submission. In my ignorance, I actually believed that
I could make my voice perform by pushing it harder and forcing it to be
louder. The frustrating result of all that pushing was, when I
pushed it too hard, my voice would wisely say, ''Enough is enough,
Joni,'' and completely shut down. It would simply thumb its nose at me
and take a mini vacation while I canceled gig after gig and missed
opportunity after opportunity because I had no voice.
Like Aristotle searching for the meaning of life, I went from voice
teacher to voice teacher searching for the perfect voice
method to solve my problems. Nothing was working and I was inconsolably
turning down those once-in-a-lifetime possibilities, while watching my
career sink like the Titanic. My voice had always been the focal point
of my work and my true joy in life.
Then, to top it all off, a leading throat specialist dispassionately
told me, ''Forget about singing Joni, your voice is shot. Go find
another career.'' Fortunately, I did not take his advice.
Why You Need a Voice Book Designed Especially for Women
It wasn't until I became a voice teacher eighteen years ago that I
realized this problem was not mine alone. I knew there had to be an
answer, not only for me, but for all of the women whose livelihoods
depended on strong voices that would last for more than a few hours,
even when they were overworked and tired. I spent the next eighteen
years watching the answers unfold before me, student by student and
lesson by lesson. Each person became a link in a chain of events that,
I'm happy to say, completely resolved my voice problems as well as those
of my clients. My tenacious search for answers paid off. Today my voice
is stronger than ever, which is why I know I can help you find your
perfect voice—one that will let you share your message with confidence
and control.
Knowing that your voice will be there when you need it most eliminates
fear and builds the self-trust so essential for success in every
business situation. In my years of teaching, I have seen shy,
soft-spoken women perform minor miracles once they learned how to use
their voices properly. Sharing this important information is the reason
I wrote this book.
Well, that's my story; now let's go back to that NSA Conference in
Hollywood. Thankfully, there is a happy and successful
ending to that stressful cry for help. My answer to the question,
''Joni, can you help me?'' was, an emphatic, ''yes.'' I could help her.
We found a quiet corner where I showed her a simple exercise that freed
her constricted vocal cords and calmed her anxiety.
The whole process took less than ten minutes and she walked away
grinning from ear to ear. Two hours later, she gave her speech and
received a standing ovation. This is just one of many success stories to
let you know that there is a very bright light at the end of the voice
tunnel. As you will discover, the beauty of the techniques you will be
learning is that you can instantly fix your voice problem with a few
simple exercises.
Excerpted from The Voice of Success: A
Woman's Guide to a Powerful and Persuasive Voice by
Joni Wilson. Copyright © ?2009 Joni Wilson.
Published by AMACOM Books, a division of American Management
Association, New York, NY. Used with permission.
All rights reserved.
http://www.amacombooks.org.
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Table of Contents
Contents
Acknowledgments
Chapter 1
''Can We Talk?''
An Overview
Part I: Effective Communication:
How to Use Your Voice to Get What You Want
Chapter 2:
Designing a Voice That Means Business
How to Create a Positive Vocal Image
Chapter 3:
''Speak Up! We Can't Hear You in the Back''
How to Become a Vocal Powerhouse
Chapter 4:
Speaking Chic
How to Fashion a Voice Tailor-Made for Your Message
Chapter 5:
Fear and Loathing of Public Speaking
How to Defeat the Jitters
Part II: Speaking ''Up Close and Personal'' with the Female Voice
Chapter 6:
Your Body, Your Brain, and Your Voice
Chapter 7:
Your Vocal Personality
Physical and Emotional Factors and What to Do About Them
Chapter 8:
Health, Hormones, and Heredity
Part III: Falling in Love with Your Voice 165
Chapter 9:
The Voice of a Winner
Putting It Together to Create the Voice of Success
Chapter 10:
Singing Your Way to a Better Speaking Voice
Appendix
Index
About the Author
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