Secrets of Selling to Boomers: Keep It Old School

Published: Jan 24, 2019
Modified: Mar 25, 2020

By Ron Volper, Ph.D.

Why cater to Baby Boomers?There are approximately 80 million Baby Boomers in the U.S. They have the highest disposable income of any generation and they are now living longer. So whether you sell in a retail or business-to-business environment, or manage those who do, if you want to up your sales in a down market, you need to know more about how to sell to them (the generation born between approximately 1946 and 1964).
While there are more similarities than differences in how a salesperson should sell to customers regardless of their generation, and Baby Boomers are not a homogeneous group, there are subtle but important differences in our beliefs, attitudes and behaviors; and selling to us requires a different approach. 


A personal story
Recently I visited a major office products retailer to purchase a new color printer for our office.  I had spoken to some of my colleagues about printers, so I came to the store armed with a bit of knowledge and a lot of questions.
Even though there were few customers in the store, no salesperson approached me. After looking around for about 10 minutes, I finally found a young salesperson in his twenties. He was well dressed and well spoken and seemed pleasant. Here's what happened.
Instead of greeting me, I had to open the conversation by greeting the salesperson and asking him if he could help me.
Instead of smiling and looking me in the eye, he stared down at the floor. When I asked him several basic questions about one of the printers I was considering, he said he did not know, and walked over to his computer where he pulled up information about the printer I was considering.
While I was asking him questions, he kept looking at the computer screen, so there was precious little eye contact.
When I told him I was concerned about whether one of the printers I was considering would fit into the designated space in my office, he simply read off its dimensions from his computer screen.  When I asked him if he could open the box so I could actually see the printer and get a feel for its size, he said he would rather not.
When several other customers came over to ask questions, he interrupted his conversation with me to respond to them.
While some of his sales behavior—or lack thereof—might be attributed to a lack of sales training (and better selling skills would help him sell customers in all generations), much of the underlying problem was that this Gen X salesperson did not recognize that he was dealing with a customer who is a Baby Boomer, who has values and expectations that are different from his own.
Understanding Boomers’s needs
Unlike those in Generation X (born between approximately 1965 and 1980) and Generation Y (born between approximately 1981 and 2000), we Baby Boomers did not grow up with computers. Many of us are not totally comfortable with them. So when the salesperson at the office products store turned on his computer I felt an invisible barrier go up between us. I also thought I could have stayed in my office and gone online myself.

Baby Boomers like to be in someone's physical presence and usually prefer face-to-face communication, so we can look someone in the eye and judge what saying. When the salesperson failed to smile, or shake my hand, or look me in the eye, I immediately felt a lack of rapport with him. More than other generations, we Baby Boomers have to feel comfortable with the salesperson before we can feel comfortable with the product.

To build rapport with Boomers:

  • Use high touch over high tech
    The salesperson I dealt with showed me a virtual product, a picture of the printer on his computer. However, as a Baby Boomer, I wanted to touch it. Moreover, I did not know the actual dimensions of the space where the printer would go, but I had a picture of that space in my mind. Had the salesperson been willing to go to the trouble to open the box holding the printer (instead of showing me the online picture of it and telling me its dimensions), I would have been able to determine whether it was the right size.
  • Listen for our needs
    While the salesperson did not mean to be unkind, to me, his unwillingness to open the box signaled poor customer service. In fact, when I asked him to take the printer out of the box he responded by showing me the online ratings from customers who had purchased it. This was not what I wanted; as a Baby Boomer I am less influenced by online ratings from people I've never met and more influenced by what my friends and colleagues tell me.
  • Avoid multitasking
    As a Babv Boomer, I was brought up to do one thing at a time and give people my undivided attention. When the salesperson allowed random customers to interrupt our conversation and also exchanged text messages with someone, I lost my train of thought, and lost confidence in him.
  • Win with the right words
    As a former salesperson and head of sales at a Fortune 500 company, I know that the way we talk to a customer is as important as what we say. So I was not impressed—and I don't think my Baby Boomer peers would be either—when the young salesperson kept inserting the word "like" into many of his sentences, as in "this printer is like the fastest we have."
  • Empathize with the customer
    As a Baby Boomer, I grew up at a time when “Made in America" meant a lot. I have reconciled myself to the fact that we now live in a global economy and that the U.S. has become a service economy, but I still silently groan when I see a product labeled “Made in China.” When I mentioned this to the salesperson, he responded, “They make the best printers."  While I don't know if that's true or not, and it's not something easily changed, I wanted this Gen Y salesperson to simply acknowledge my feelings.
  • Ask, don’t tell
    What was most surprising was that instead of questioning me about how I would be using the printer (i.e., how often and for what purposes) or asking me what I liked and disliked about the printer I was replacing, he kept telling me about the printer’s great features. At a time when leading companies (and Apple is a great example) are designing wiz-bang products, it's understandable that many people and especially those in the "younger generations" fall in love with the features of many products. However, for us Baby Boomers, it's as much about the person selling the product as the product itself.

So for all the reasons mentioned above, and despite his good intentions, the salesperson I spoke to was not  the person who sold me the nifty new color laser printer that I another store.
© 2011 Ron Volper, Ph.D. All rights reserved.

About the Author(s)

Ron Volper, Ph.D. is managing partner of the Ron Volper Group and an adjunct faculty member at New York University. His new book is Up Your Sales in a Down Market: 20 Strategies To Win Over Cautious Customers. For more information, visit: